Tuesday, January 15, 2019

Tuesday, January 15, 2019


       Oh, dear. The second donor, I was the first, had to drop out because of medical reasons as I did.  There is no other donor currently insight.
       The hemodialysis sessions have been a misery.  From departure to return can be six hours, and that's three nights a week. Also,  Mike's fistula, where the needles are inserted for the dialysis, hasn't been working well.  His arm is often swollen afterward for days. We will be trying different things as a result.
       He will get another surgery to create a port, which allows for easier entry for the hemodialysis. He will also be set up for home dialysis.  The process is called peritoneal dialysis. It works by a different process than hemodialysis.  He will be doing it at night and have his day free.  Damon has done considerable research on the PD option. It sounds pretty good. It is much gentler than hemodialysis.
       Thank you to all of you for your concern for Mike.  I am optimistic that there is a solution that will allow him to live a full life.
                                           Betty

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