Thursday, February 23, 2023

 Thursday, February 23, 2023

   Yvette and I did our morning walk with our dogs together. I wove back and forth; she went straight. She was anxious to get home early because she had to set up for the driveway yoga class. She sets out the mats, blocks, and straps for people to use.

    I finally had my appointment with the dentist to get molds made for my posts and bridge. I had to take an antibiotic an hour before I went. I remembered. The dentist's assistant is his wife. They sometimes drop their professional demeanor and speak to each other only as a husband and wife would. He asked where she had put something in a slightly accusing tone. She sniped back, "It's right there on the tray," which it was. He turned to me and commented," You know the best way to get along with your wife is to always say, "Yes, dear."  I've heard that comment many times. It did feel good when Mike said yes. I gave the comment some thought.

  Saying," Yes, dear," was what a woman was expected to say to a man at all times until my generation, post WWII. I was told the way to get a man to do something your way was to convince him it was his idea and then say, "Yes, dear." Women weren't allowed to make proposals. There have always been some women who spoke up, but it was not the norm. It still isn't in many cultures.

  I stopped at Farm and Garden. The leaves on my crepe bushes were turning brown and falling off. I showed them a picture. They recommended an insecticide. My next stop was Costco. I had a long list of items to buy.  

I got home by 11:15. I had planned to attend the new parish center blessing, but it would be too late now. I still had to unload the groceries and get them into the frig.

  My friend Melissa called later in the afternoon. Did I attend the blessing? I explained the snafu in my schedule. Did I know the Clintons were there, as well as Chelsea with two of her children? Melissa wasn't quite sure why they were there.

   I got an email from second-grade M's teacher praising M's accomplishments and mine. I appreciate it so much when I get positive feedback.

Hi Betty,

Yes! M has done great on the 3-digit addition and subtraction units! She has been a leader demonstrating for the class and is so proud and confident. Your help has been key!